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opn2new
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How did you do get past the first time jitters?
5-Nov-20 13:47
I found what sounded exactly what I wanted, a crossdresser who just wanted to be sucked but would not do it in return. I asked if he liked other cross dressers and he said yes. He sent picks and was very sexy and nicely endowed (7 inches). I had a hotel room and he could come over. So everything is great I got a shower and was getting ready but I was shaking all over and felt like I was going to get sick. This was a perfect setup and I couldn't do it. I asked if we could meet first and he said yes but haven't heard back. For me the virus, and being married in the closet has something to do with it but many of us have the same situation. Any advice would be appreciated. I also didn't feel secure giving my hotel room to a total stranger and wondering if there are any tips on how to safely proceed?

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luvpantyz
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5-Nov-20 16:04
Understand how you feel! All I can say is you just have to do it. As many hookups as I have had I too will get a little jittery when I meet someone for the first time. It does get easier, at least for me it did.

If you are reductant to give up your room number or in my case, my home address, you can arrange a meet somewhere neutral, such as a parking lot or restaurant. If all seems good you can move to a more private place to play.

Best of luck, have fun and be safe!!!

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opn2new
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5-Nov-20 20:40
luvpantyz said: Understand how you feel! All I can say is you just have to do it. As many hookups as I have had I too will get a little jittery when I meet someone for the first time. It does get easier, at least for me it did.

If you are reductant to give up your room number or in my case, my home address, you can arrange a meet somewhere neutral, such as a parking lot or restaurant. If all seems good you can move to a more private place to play.

Best of luck, have fun and be safe!!!


Thank you for your response, I think if I would of dressed first and had a plan I might of been able to do it. I lose a lot of my inhabitations when I get dressed sexy. I guess that's why I have so many hotel hallway pics. I think next time I will dress under my clothes and then have them meet me some place neutral.
What are the thoughts? Should I reach out to him again?

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shavedrear
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5-Nov-20 23:32
I would call him, you don't want to go home with herpes or something else, I would meet for coffee, find out what kind of guy he is. You know I love oral sex, but I would like to reciprocate.

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nakedjim
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6-Nov-20 13:38
My first receiving was though a glory hole. The prick on the other side would, sometimes poke through asking . It wasn't long after i nerviouly took hold of my first man cock. WOW . I jerked but didn't suck for several weeks. Then a guy asked to come in my booth to be more pleasureable. Both pants at angles he did an almost great job but stopped telling me to suck him. I was so excited I dropped down & lick his precum dickhead. WOW. He held my head & fucked gently fucked my face. Then he sped up & popped his load. I was shocked then tasting it, wanted more, that day. Had 2 more that afternoon then went home, kissed my wife & fucked her after dinner.

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nakedjim
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6-Nov-20 13:38
My first receiving was though a glory hole. The prick on the other side would, sometimes poke through asking . It wasn't long after i nerviouly took hold of my first man cock. WOW . I jerked but didn't suck for several weeks. Then a guy asked to come in my booth to be more pleasureable. Both pants at angles he did an almost great job but stopped telling me to suck him. I was so excited I dropped down & lick his precum dickhead. WOW. He held my head & fucked gently fucked my face. Then he sped up & popped his load. I was shocked then tasting it, wanted more, that day. Had 2 more that afternoon then went home, kissed my wife & fucked her after dinner.

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nakedjim
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My first
6-Nov-20 13:38
My first receiving was though a glory hole. The prick on the other side would, sometimes poke through asking . It wasn't long after i nerviouly took hold of my first man cock. WOW . I jerked but didn't suck for several weeks. Then a guy asked to come in my booth to be more pleasureable. Both pants at angles he did an almost great job but stopped telling me to suck him. I was so excited I dropped down & lick his precum dickhead. WOW. He held my head & fucked gently fucked my face. Then he sped up & popped his load. I was shocked then tasting it, wanted more, that day. Had 2 more that afternoon then went home, kissed my wife & fucked her after dinner.

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nakedjim
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6-Nov-20 13:39
Sorry about the repeated entries.

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opn2new
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6-Nov-20 13:51
shavedrear said: I would call him, you don't want to go home with herpes or something else, I would meet for coffee, find out what kind of guy he is. You know I love oral sex, but I would like to reciprocate.


I asked if he could meet that night but time was limited, so asked about the next day and that's about the last I heard from him. I think I might of made the right decision because he went from could meet anytime to have to do this now. I thought that was warning. Thank you for for reply and you are right about not wanting to catch something, if it wasn't for the chance of STD's I'm sure I would have a date set up every night.

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opn2new
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6-Nov-20 13:51
shavedrear said: I would call him, you don't want to go home with herpes or something else, I would meet for coffee, find out what kind of guy he is. You know I love oral sex, but I would like to reciprocate.


I asked if he could meet that night but time was limited, so asked about the next day and that's about the last I heard from him. I think I might of made the right decision because he went from could meet anytime to have to do this now. I thought that was warning. Thank you for for reply and you are right about not wanting to catch something, if it wasn't for the chance of STD's I'm sure I would have a date set up every night.

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opn2new
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6-Nov-20 13:53
Posted twice for me to.

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opn2new
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6-Nov-20 14:09
nakedjim said: My first receiving was though a glory hole. The prick on the other side would, sometimes poke through asking . It wasn't long after i nerviouly took hold of my first man cock. WOW . I jerked but didn't suck for several weeks. Then a guy asked to come in my booth to be more pleasureable. Both pants at angles he did an almost great job but stopped telling me to suck him. I was so excited I dropped down & lick his precum dickhead. WOW. He held my head & fucked gently fucked my face. Then he sped up & popped his load. I was shocked then tasting it, wanted more, that day. Had 2 more that afternoon then went home, kissed my wife & fucked her after dinner.


I want to do that but there aren't any around home or where I'm staying now, and I'm very afraid that I will be like you after I get my first. I'll want more and more. There is a group of CD's that meet regularly and have guys come over to and they ensured me that they have had many beginners and there wouldn't be any problem with taking things slow. I was going to meet them but then the virus hit and it got canceled. They started meeting again and have sent me invites but with this stuff still going around I'm not ready to be in a house with 10 or more people engaged in close contact as I have a at risk person in my family. Thank you and wondering if you ever cross dressed at the glory hole?

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smokeinthemirror
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15-Nov-20 11:45
My first time was almost a disaster. I was okay but the other guy got nervous and couldn't get hard.I enjoyed his soft dick(still do) but he got up and left ,we never got together again.

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Dianne44
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22-Nov-20 21:39
I believe you would be more comfortable & safer to meet with the group of CD's rather than a one-on-one. In the group you would not be required to do anything if you felt like holding back. You could simply watch & masturbate and if you felt comfortable with them, go back again to participate further. Just wait for the virus vaccine to be widely distributed then head over to the group.

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peetv
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Jitters
18-Dec-25 21:13
To my way of thinking....they are always there. Once I start sucking cock they disappear.

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SWVACD
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First time Jitters
25-Dec-25 04:05
I always want to meet first out somewhere ,chat a few minutes. And set up a meeting after that. If all goes well with the meeting. Especially this day and time.
Its better to be safe than sorry!

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Jonathan1
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31-Dec-25 23:45
Having a mentor helps angel

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