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As I grew older I started to have problems. As I aged, I started to enjoy bottoming more. By 75 I was bottoming all the time. I still have a tight ass and wet mouth to enjoy sex.

Yup, I don't get real hard very often. I can get there but it takes some time. Being a bottom its usually not much of an issue. My mouth and ass work just fine.

Yes age has everything to do with getting and keeping a hard cock. I have had this problem for quite a few years. I have been using Viagra and I get hard as a rock. I cum very little if at all, usually just pre-cum. The good thing is I still feel the orgasm and the pumping of sperm but it gets caught in the cavity left after 2 green laser operations on my prostate. Good thing is with Viagra I can usually get hard again in less than 10 minutes for 2nd 3rd and even 4th rounds. Love to meet some of you guys.

recent problem for me at 72; don't stay hard very long; not much cum anymore, either, but a whole lot of shaking when I orgasm.

Had this problem for some time. Not really a problem as I am a cock sucking bottom slut.

I'm 68 yo, retired stay active, a little 420, some Miller Lite, healthy diet. I wake up every morning puffy and hard...

I have the problem also. I'm 70 and it has been developing gradually over the last 1-2 years.

It happens to all of us with age, the natural progression, right.
Love how all of you stay active and engaged, important IMHO.
As long as you still enjoy sex and try and pursue it however you can, that is Awesome!

I am soooo happy to no longer be able to get an erection. My clit had atrophied and is now permanently retracted up inside me so I can't see it or even feel it. I prefer the man I'm sleeping with have the only erection! My orgasms are more intense than ever though and I cum a lot through my orifice.

I'm having that problem now. I have to take a blue pill if i want to have sex with my wife (or anyone else for that matter lol.) Luckily, i'm bottom so enjoy being fucked more than giving. For some reason i can stay hard when wanking tho.

Have not had a real stiff hardon for quite awhile, but I still ejaculate a little, not like I used to do. The taste is still good, wish I could find a top who would take it easy and do me in my mouth and butt, not had either for many years sad, but I am so shy and not out.

Yes, I’m in my 70s and getting a stiffy is a rarity. Luckily with the right stimulation I can cum even when soft.

I don't get as hard anymore. I do enjoy bottom and I like sucking soft cocks too.
First dick I ever sucked was a softy.enjoyed it then(20 yrs ago) and enjoy it now

I am 68 and my penis is just a bit on the long side so it needs more blood flow to get a good erection. Even at peak times, my penis is a little floppy but works okay for oral sex.
On the other hand, I find it very difficult to penetrate an anus without a pill. The pills can be hit or miss; usually they help a little but not a lot. Sometimes I still cannot penetrate even after a pill.
I also learned that if I hope to penetrate an anus, I cannot spend too much time in foreplay. My penis is hardest when I first drop my trousers. The longer I wait to penetrate, the more risk I take that my erection will get too spongey to enter.
My last experience was about two months ago, I penetrated a man's anus but could not get the in and out action going. Instead, every time I pushed in, my penis kept bending instead of going deeper.
I imagine my penis would be able to penetrate a vagina, but I have not had that opportunity in years. I can only seem to connect with guys.
By the way, my boyfriend is 69 and has no problem at all with his erection. I think I might be able to hang a towel on his stiffie.

Yeah! Used to be a good stiff 7” but that was the “used to be”. Now days, just enough stiffness to JO and that’s not fooling around. Get it quickly before Mr. Softy realizes what I’m trying to do. But there’s still lots of fun out there and I’m trying to get my share. Cum? Plenty of it!

Yeah! Used to be a good stiff 7” but that was the “used to be”. Now days, just enough stiffness to JO and that’s not fooling around. Get it quickly before Mr. Softy realizes what I’m trying to do. But there’s still lots of fun out there and I’m trying to get my share. Cum? Plenty of it!

Lucky for me, I still get hard. It does take more time now and doesn't stay hard like it use to unless I'm constantly playing with it. When I cum it still rocks my world. I make sure I'm getting hard a few times a day so the little feller won't forget how

i'm 72 and have had issues for ten years getting hard staying hard or just going soft at wrong time. Be pounding wifes pussy and feeling great and the dick goes soft! I can get hard easy enough maintaining it is the problem, tying my clit shaft and pantyballs tight helps a lot. Also like some on here the amount of cum is way reduced from when in my 30's. So now its a vibrator in my cunny and tie the junk up tight and stroke it good still even this way.

I can get harder and stay hard with 25mg of sildenifil and watching bi or gay porn and Jerking my cock and play with my hole then getting and staying hard with the old lady, I can feel my cock getting stiff just think about gay porn as I type........

DUH ! IT IS A THING CALLED "AGE" !!!

I feel exactly the same as you about this…

In fact I have done as much as possible to stay impotent

I do get hard but not as hard nor does it stay hard for long. Maybe thats why i like being a bottom

I am 68 and can't keep it hard. I can start out hard but it gets soft after a few minutes. I can't do the wife because it starts out hard but goes soft really fast. Haven't done the wife for the last 5 years because of this problem. I now rely on masturbating and even though it starts out hard and ends up soft I can still cum with a good load.

I can relate. Haven't had sex with my wife more than maybe 3 or 4 times in the last 5 years. Been over 2 since we last tried...didn't stay hard very long. But I can get decently hard with a guy if he is sucking me, again, it doesn't last long but neither do i...lol. Since I am mostly a bottom its not an issue.

A combination of age and diabetes prevents me from getting fully erect. Pills help sometimes (50/50). Thankfully, I can still orgasm while soft; however, when I "cum" not much actually cums (diabetes again).

I've always assumed that big penises took longer to get hard than small-to-average ones, and that body mass was a factor.

I'm medium build with five and a half inches and it gets really hard quite quickly. Quantity of sperm has gone down dramatically, admittedly, but the orgasm feels just as good. I bet it would spurt again if ever I had another one to play with though...