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I agree with you. For me, a big part of femininity is being "soft" and "sensual." Yes, there is something to be said about being "femme" in the presence of a hot, hard, male and being "receptive" to his HIS "demanding" needs. But, for me, I also need the opportunity and occasion to the "softer" side of sex with another femme... There's just something about making soft, sensual, love with another gurl... meeting and satisfying the needs of each other as only "sisters" can know and appreciate.

When I am wearing my black nylon stockings, garter belt, panties, bra and high heels I am definitely a cock loving sissy slut

Ok, peetv, yes, I concur, I am a cock craving slut as well. (And to not get totally off topic, I also love the fun of pee play--- I mean, I get all of the things that you have posted on the subject, and agree 100%!). But what I guess I mean to say is that I crave cock all the time, weather I am totally dressed or just underdressed (as I am all the time, so, well, I guess I am always SORT OF dressed). I don't compartmentalize it in some 'other' part of my psyche; I am always me, and dressing and craving cock are aspects of my identity, not parts that are conditional, and only activated when I dress. I realize that this is something that many crossdressers do, and I get it. It's hard being us: wanting to be femme (You fucking SISSY! Grow a pair and be a MAN!), wanting to suck a delicious hard cock (This Is An
Abomination Under God!). Look, it's tough. We all deal with it in our own ways, predicated by the conditions of each of our own stories. But the grace of our contemporary times, if you haven't noticed, is that a lot of that rigid bull shit has fallen away (well, to some extent). So we get the agency to play with all of it, now, (but probably not for long, the way things are going), and no longer have to fear, by and large, being beaten to an inch of our lives with a sack full of doorknobs by the same characters of male power hegemony that held us against our own senses of self. Screw those guys. They are the same guys that use the power of their privilege to minimize women, and use their authority of position to use sex as a power game, instead of it being about a mutual transcendent experience of sensuality and stinky earthiness. I mean, pee, right? Being a sissy, for me, in not about the sublimation of myself trough a group of aesthetic choices, but an affirmation of a feminine identity created through the adoption of cultural hyper-feminine aesthetics. And in the permissiveness of your contemporary culture, I get to do that without being only the object of a power dynamic. I turned away from the constructs of 'maleness,' the hyper aggressive and simplistic dynamics of 'I am the best! I am the winner of whatever, and all of you are losers!' Why would I want that same person in my bed? When Alpha men, in the end of the day, care only about getting their dick wet, REGARDLESS of who sucks their cock, bet it you or, well whatever, If this is ok with you, and is not a problem, in your fantasy construct of yourself, then, ok. Ok. But maybe, well, think about yourself in this context, maybe just for a minute. Who, then, are you, when you pretend to not be the sissy crossdresser who sucked that guys cock, and then has to go to work and pretend to be an Alpha male?

Remember a REAL SISSY never says No to a hard cock.