nakedjim said: I'm not able to get hard any more. I still play with my softy and get it to cum, while soft maybe 3 times a week. I like to edge myself and then pack it away for several hours keeping my brain and nuts in need of releasing a load. When I finally do cum it is a bit painful. I fucken love that feeling.
Like you Jim, I am an older man. I don't get quite as hard as I used to and I don't shoot very far. Just a little spurt usually but I still get the great orghasmic feeling of cumming. When I have cum I dont feel in any way sexual for at least a couple of days, more like a week. What I enjoy mostly now is edging for long periods, keeping the sexual excitement boiling inside me and wearing my lingerie helps me to maintain that. I get to a point where I feel that I will burst if I don't cum so I give in and let it all go. Sometimes I will go for three or four weeks without cumming but usually cum about once a week. By denying myself sexual release keeps me more vital, aroused continually and wanting to masturbate all the time. Just have to watch that I don't pull this hair trigger to hard😋