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The old girlfriend I had several years ago, her husband was a CD. I met him couple of times. He dieded several months later. His x wife found all his lingerie etc, but no toys ? hmm, I'm a CD and while dating her, but still in the closet.
She and were going out one night, went to pick her up. She showed me every thing she found. I told her, had good taste for dhoosing sexy thinks, Oh I wanted to tell her, I could, but chicken out. I'm happily divorce, have three children, and yep I don't wanna give it up as well... Love the feminine feeling.
Anyway, here's another option: Depending on the size of your collection, you might have a good friend, someone you trust to keep a secret, take possession of your belongings which your store in a locked container. On the cover, write his name and contact info and instructions that only he can have access to the contents. You'd have an arrangement / understanding with this friend that in the event of your demise, he will dispose of everything discreetly. If he's a trustworthy fellow, he won't even peek at your belongings. After all, if you're like me, those objects are just sex play things, and it's only natural you want to keep them private.
hide my dressing stuff. After a car accident a while back, my kids
had to come put all my household stuff in storage. Fortunately,
that was before I started to dress!
Now I hide my dressing stuff in plain sight. I was brought up
straight originally so having a GF wouldn't be surprising.
Since I go by the name "Linda" when I dress, I simply have a box
in my closet labelled "Linda's stuff".
Anyone looking through my closet would have no clue that it's
actually MY stuff. This may not work for everyone but it works for me!
(Come to Cleveland and see me in my panties!)
If - or rather when - you die, the people dealing with the aftermath might not like a stranger strolling in who's looking for the dead guy's dildos and panties. Said stranger would need a convincing letter of authority!
Anyway back to the issue: But first a little back ground - when I worked I traveled a lot for business which gave me plenty of time away during which I was able to dress and play in my hotel rooms but as time passed the time came for me to retire - Since she is a few years younger than me and worked again it gave me the opportunity to dress and play while she was at work which was even greated and bettr as I had access to all my things and the comfort of home so to speak. . . .
Again as time went by she retired - OH Dam and was home all the time and then we went down to one car which mad it almost impossible foe me to get out alone let alone able to go out dressed or take my things
So with much though and quite a few years of not being able to dress let alone get out - I started thinking on what to do with my things basically killing chrissie ! !! my ultra self
In that past there was one time that I thought I was going to be Outted and I panicked an purged most of my things by just throwing thing out in the trash. As it turned out, it was not necessary and I had to start all over again to amass my collection.
So after deciding to kill chrissie I had to decide on that to do with my things -
1. Do I throw out like before which I hated to do as I had so much attachment to my clothing Or
2. donate to Good Will or other . . . Which I know will not be reused but basically thrown out. Or
3. Keep it and let my wife find and handle it after i have gone - which I know will cause her much diss comfort so what to do?
Well after much though I decided to give my things to another gurl at I found on a different web site. I went through this site and found a gurl who lived local and I contacted her. (this site unlike NB the posted indicates where they live - state - city - town etc)
After contacting her we exchange several message and was will to take my things and she will use and anything she can not use, she will give to other (TG) who were starting out and needed some help.
So early las mounth , I delivered all my things except most of my panties and a few toys. Shas since contacte me to tell my that shw is using most of my things except a few pairs of 4 inch hill heels which she said she would beak a leg or something from fall wearing the, The shoes weht to another needing gurl.
Right now I am feeling fine with my decision even though I will not be able to dress again but I still have my panties and also the good feeling that my things are going to used to help make some else feel good also.
I know this is long but I wanted to let other gurls know how I handled the death of chrissie
My hope that this posting could or migh help phers in the same position to deal with their eventual demise.
Kisses
chrissie
Oh if any one is interested in the other site- contact me an I will tell you
I am Sorry for my choice of wording ! ! !
I could not sleep at all last night as I was troubled by my wording in my previous post and the demise of secret gurl chrissie
I should have used the wording indicating the "Retirement" of chrissie. Chrissie will always live in me as long as I live in side my heard, mind and body of me even though she will not be able to materialize as a dressed gurl again. She will always be with me and only die with me. She is a female born to / in a male body crying to get out but unfortunately born in a time when society is so un-accepting
I hope I cleared any confusion any one might have gotten by my use of kill her - She is or was only "retiring" and will always live in me
If you are thinking about death - then you aren’t living it fully.
What any decent , sane person would wish for their friends and loved ones - is that they followed their heart , and did what they wanted , without hurting others.
Keeping secrets , hiding in the closet , skulking about , lying to children - all behaviour that is bad for your health , and a mind-fuck for anyone in your life.
Empathy is not just a product of mind. It has lots to do with vibration , and if you are saying one thing , and sending other signals - then you will be a strange person to be around. People will “sense” something is up.
So be honest , straight from the outset.
What could you possibly lose? Nothing tangible. Unless you and your partner wish to give all your assets to divorce lawyers - which would be stupid.
If it matters that much - why did you do this thing , when you knew you would risk mental illness by trying to keep it secret?
That action says a lot about what type of person you are.
One solution is to ditch the lot , and discuss the subject with your partner - saying that you’d like to introduce a bit of it into your relationship. And go from there.
Buy the new stuff together , and take her on that journey with you.
Sound like a plan?
When I was a young sissy in my late 20's an older gurl shipped several huge boxes of girl things to me and I loved him for it. I would love to be able to help a young sissy boy too.
Agree with Dianne
"Wish I had contact with young sissies would love to gift some stuff to them."
If I wasnt so darn manly looking and shy about my interests, I probably would be a member of Carla's
My wife knows I enjoy the Feel of Hose and heels, So I'm Ok there... I just wish I got to enjoy it more then I do!!
However, as death looms closer I decided to ditch the lot. Better that than upset my wife and family.
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