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I drove by Club Dallas a few times doing a couple of different errands one afternoon and just looked at the outside (too chicken to go in). But I found a convenient parking spot out front and decided “what the hell, I’m a grown man.” As I opened the door, it was nicely cool inside (over 100 outside), clean, had no particular “odor” (don’t ask), the young guy at the window was very pleasant and answered a couple of (undoubtably stupid) questions. I didn’t have any time to kill that afternoon but I thought “this may be the answer to my “problem.”
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The next place on my list is BAD. It's definitely not legit so I'm both terrified and turned on to try it. Talk me into going, wouldya? I 'm having cold feet.
Hey old buddy, 1st you have to realize that in any given day in a gay spa can be different than the last. Time of day also has a lot to do with it. It is like the nude beach that I go to. Sometimes it is really easy to hook up with several different guys on any day. Some days it seems impossible to hook up. I would definitely try it again Whether you go back to the same place or try a different place. I would be happy to entertain you in my private Jacuzzi anytime.
Bad News: I'm not gay or bi. And trust me I wanted to be today. I took enough Sildenafil and a drink called Brahma Shot that I thought I was going to cum on my ride there. I was insane with lust when I got out of the car. The place was tinier than the place in Chelsea. And $40. There was a changing room, a TV room and hot and cold jacuzzis. A shower to the right. A steam room --where I hung out--could probably hold 8 on a good day. The sauna is where I saw an older man just start blowing a beautiful Korean man in his 20s. That maybe could hold 6.
But I could not stay or re-get hard. Also I don't think I give off gaydar so the only interested guy was anonymous (because of the steam I couldn't make out his face) but he had me in his mouth for 20 seconds. I wanted cocks in my mouth but I got zippo.
There were at least 3 elevens (on a scale from 1 to 10) out of the ten men total . If I was ever going to get hard and thick it would have been in their presence. But it just didn't happen. I was precumming like a sonofabitch but my cock did NOT look like the cock I've posted in pictures here.
After an hour and fifteen minutes with no action or interest on anyone's part, I chalked it up as a sexy but disappointing experiment.
Biology tells you what we are. As much as being bi would have been amazing, I am not bi. That's two naked male saunas in two weeks and no stiff chubby that I could be proud of.
When I was first getting sober many, many years ago I asked my sponsor how I would know which girl to ask out. "A boner is a good indication," he replied deadpan.
Well no boner today spoke volumes because I wanted one desperately but biology overruled me.
Love,
Tom
I have found it to be a very sexy and erotic experience. Especially going into the steam room.
Paul