Satinslip2's blog post - My return to the Community

Thursday, November 6, 2025, 6:36:19 AM

I am returning to the cd/tg community after I went thru a total purge of my feminine side 2 years ago. My wife was tolerant of my dressing and flirting for 10 years. Then around Jan 2023 we had a discussion about how our physical relationship was lacking and she felt it was because of me expressing my feminine side and that I was no longer attracted to her. After a lot of thought i decided to purge my wardrobe, pics, vids and friends to try to alleviate her concerns. Well, it wasn't long before I realized this was not the issue as nothing was changing between us physically. Finally this week I decided for my sanity and well being to start building up my wardrobe and flirting with my friends again. I feel like a burden of frustration has been lifted and love being free to express my feminine self once again. Our relationship is still solid after 47 years and I guess we have both decided that physically we will still have to hash things out....to be continued....

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Mancunt46 on 6-Nov-25 13:03:42

My penis is very erect just from reading this. You mirror my situation exactly - I yearn to get back to be able to wear my bras and panties freely.

webuk4u on 12-Nov-25 18:31:08

good for you❤️

Satinslip2 on 13-Nov-25 5:50:13

So here is my latest update on the home front. After showing the Mrs. my favorite pictures and videos of all you beautiful ladies she finally wanted to see the pictures I have posted and all of the wonderful comments. Of course this all happened in bed with me in my nightie and panties and of course starting to get excited. So i figured "what the hell " and started stroking in front of her as we looked thru them. She couldn't believe how hard I got looking at other cocks in lingerie. I then admitted how I would love to suck some of those beautiful cocks and having cum shot into my mouth. She just looked at me and turned over without a comment. I was actually hoping for more of a reaction....more to come I guess

Mancunt46 on 19-Dec-25 12:36:28

I'm fairly certain my wife would have the same reaction if I admitted the same. It's unfortunate people of our age were raised in a fairly repressive time. Really, what's wrong with two mature adults wearing lingerie and shooting their cum in each other's mouths ? Because they happen to be the same gender ? I think gay people have some understanding that "straights" do not.

amandacarrol on 6-Jan-26 14:41:07

Such a difficult topic. There are those of us who are lucky enough to have a wife that is at least in the range between tolerant and accepting. Where to draw the line. My wife has always been accepting and is encouraging of Amanda. However our sex life leaves much to be desired. That was not always the case. These days that time of life has come and gone for her so there is little to no sex drive. For me the idea of a hard cock in sheer panties is much more appealing than any pussy. What to do? How to do it? I struggle with these questions daily.

So far it has been what she doesn’t know won’t hurt her. I am however very unsure that is the way to go.

TVPanties on 16-Feb-26 20:18:41

Never been married, but here's my 2-cents...

I think it's wonderful your wife is accepting (or at least tolerant?) of your dressing and desire to express your femme side. The fact that you were in your nightie and panties while you were both actively exploring NTN pics, is pretty amazing to me!

My gut reaction, however, to what you described afterwards.... I imagine that when she saw you become super aroused and then heard you say you wanted to suck cock, well.... Maybe inwardly she felt "hurt"... thinking that you are now only turned on and excited by men and cocks and after all these years of marriage... I guess it would be A LOT for her to process mentally, emotionally?

You say that your "relationship is still solid".... But perhaps she's not how SHE is feeling now that she's heard you say you want cock?

And as you said before when you discussed your lack of physical relationship how she felt it was because of your feminine side and that you were no longer attracted to her.

I think you really need to have that heart-to-heart with her....

Good luck!