amandacarrol's blog post - My ongoing Quest to meet the right CD

Sunday, July 9, 2023, 3:35:35 PM

I have been active on Fetlife for about a year now. I have had some nice online conversations with a wide range of people. Everything from a transitioning FtM to male admires. Recently I have been chatting with another married CD. He was very eager to meet so I agreed to join him in a hotel room in between our homes. Very upfront with him that I would not participate in anything sexual during our first encounter and he was good with that.

When I arrived he now Donna was already dressed and just putting on the finishing touched of her makeup. I went to the bathroom and quickly did my makeup and got dressed. I had on this outfit.

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We sat and talked Donna on the couch and me on the edge of the bed for the better part of 2 hours. I could tell she really wanted to fool around but I said sticking with my original position of no fooling around on the first date. As things wrapped up for the day I did learn that Donna has ED. Have to say that was very disappointing as the whole goal of getting to know another CD is to eventually have oral sex. She has not contacted me since and frankly because of the ED I have not tried to contact her.

I will keep looking and maybe one of these days I will hook up with the right person.

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cbeyond41 on 14-Jul-23 20:22:02

Sorry this meet didn't work, but you'll know when things are good. Hopefully soon you'll connect with the right person. I have found real time to have been absolutely fantastic (and extremely instructive) because I met online a woman who felt comfortable enough after a couple months to meet in person. Like you it was over coffee in a very public place in Manhattan. She brought me some stockings which I appreciated and we took walks through "her" city which helped us connect. We seemed to click fairly well and it wasn't long before she was training me both in my hotel room and at her apartment. She introduced several things to me and took me deep into sissy submission. For example, sexually she began training me with outings to lingerie shops and soon she began using the strapon harness. This was utter surprise! Something I dreaded I soon craved. So just keep the faith, be careful and know that these meets can work!