I have been with Gurls enough especially in public to think I have the experience to say some things. Hopefully in the spirit of kindness and respect. More time is spent by us to present an acceptable outward illusion of being fem than we put in on getting out High School diploma. Lol! Let’s face it men, straight or TG, are visual creatures. If they approach you whilst sitting all seems to go well. That is until you get up to use the girls room and he sees you walking away....TOTAL failure!! This single aspect of our presentation, if performed improperly will make his interest in you drop dramatically! While I think it is harder to move like a woman than outwardly looking like one it is the single most important thing that done poorly will crash totally everything that you have done up to that moment. I’m sure there a lot of tutorials out there to suggest how to accomplish this here are a few of my own 1 Never wear too tall a heel. This will have you concentrating on not falling on your face rather than presenting a sexy view walking away.
2 Always pull your shoulders back. Almost to the point that you feel that this ridiculous. It’s NOT! Try it in a mirror, you will be amazed at the results.
3 If you have ever noticed the difference In the leg position between men and Women? Dramatic difference. yes. The reason Women seem to keep their legs together is they do not have that big ball of sensitive organs to protect. This is a hard one to over come due to years of subconscious training. Most noticeable when we walk and completely telltale when we sit or when we rise.
4. Walking. Men walk with their chests while Women walk with their hips. To circle back to early comments if you pull completely back the shoulders, wear sensible heels that you can walk oh with out having to think about this will make a must larger improvement than almost any cosmetic
5. I have found a training exercise that work wonders. We as men thru nature have learned to walk in a wide stance. Why? To protect the boys. With clothing being how it is today it’s not necessary. So....... practice walking with or without your heel with your toes pointing straight ahead, not flared out. As you walk consciously take smaller steps, and MOST IMPORTANT!! As your legs pass each other make sure that the inside of your kneecaps lightly touch each other. LET me repeat. As your legs pass each other make sure that the inside of your kneecaps lightly touch other. Try this several days and you’ll discover a soreness in your hips because you are using muscles you haven’t used ener.
The more you practice these techniques the next time you slip on that slinky body on dress and heels your presentation will match your beautiful face and hair.
Genie
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