I'm a gay-leaning, bottom bisexual gurl with an understanding (and wonderful) wife. I like to meet other gurls for friendship and big strong men for hot times;-) And I'm serious when I say "big and strong". My fetish is for muscular guys at least 6'0 tall and 215 pounds--preferably much bigger..football linebacker bigger. Also, I like my guys drug free and sensible. And one more thing: my preference is for guys 35 and older. With all this said, if there's a special guy who doesn't meet all these parameters, I'll keep my mind open.