I am returning to the cd/tg community after I went thru a total purge of my feminine side 2 years ago. My wife was tolerant of my dressing and flirting for 10 years. Then around Jan 2023 we had a discussion about how our physical relationship was lacking and she felt it was because of me expressing my feminine side and that I was no longer attracted to her. After a lot of thought i decided to purge my wardrobe, pics, vids and friends to try to alleviate her concerns. Well, it wasn't long before I realized this was not the issue as nothing was changing between us physically. Finally this week I decided for my sanity and well being to start building up my wardrobe and flirting with my friends again. I feel like a burden of frustration has been lifted and love being free to express my feminine self once again. Our relationship is still solid after 47 years and I guess we have both decided that physically we will still have to hash things out....to be continued....