I am a 49-yr-old, unattached, happily cross-dressing male, with a secure 'vanilla' professional and personal life outside of my kinks and fetishes. I view a person's sexual interests as completely separate from their lives as professionals, or community-involved volunteers, or 'good family members'. The bedroom/boudoir/dungeon is a separate realm entirely...a private place to explore different dimensions of mind, body, and soul. I enjoy adult consensual sexual role-play of all kinds, including but not limited to sub/domme, erotic teasing/tomrment, and humiliation.